Because of prostatitis I can't finish

Ejaculation (ejaculation) and prostatitis

Most men underestimate the severity of prostatitis symptoms by deliberately ignoring them. They do not understand that the pathology will not go away by itself. Without treatment, prostatitis can lead to impotence. In addition to discomfort in the perineum, pain when urinating and a burning sensation, due to prostatitis, there may be such a problem as rapid ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. If you ignore the signs of pathology for a long time, then this is inevitable. Eliminate the disease should be in the early stages, so as not to encounter complications.

Causes of lack of ejaculation in prostatitis

The complete absence of ejaculation in medicine is commonly called aspermia. Ejaculation occurs in a man on a subconscious level, this is a reflex completion of each full-fledged sexual intercourse. A man cannot control this process; the brain and spinal cord are responsible for its onset. At the same time, the erection itself is stable, the patient feels the onset of orgasm, but the orgasm itself does not occur, and if sensations do occur, then the ejection of sperm does not occur. Under such circumstances, a man cannot get full satisfaction, respectively, sexual contact is considered pathological.

Absence of ejaculation or anejaculation refers to the inability of men to ejaculate during normal intercourse

The reason for the lack of ejaculation can be:

The cause may also be a severely inflamed urethra, which is not able to pass the ejaculate. Under the influence of the disease, the body uses all hidden reserves to fight pathogenic flora, respectively, there are fewer vitamins and microelements left for other processes.

In addition to the physiological causes of ejaculation disorders, there are also psychological aspects. A man during the period of illness feels inferior. Chronic fatigue, stress, antipathy to the partner or an unfortunate place for sexual intercourse can affect the psyche of a man even more. As a result, ejaculation does not occur. Ejaculation and prostatitis are closely related concepts, therefore, after the complete elimination of the disease, the condition and sexual function of a man is completely restored.

Premature ejaculation

The consequences of untreated prostatitis may be the opposite of the previous situation, premature ejaculation may occur and sexual intercourse will be short. Premature ejaculation, as well as its complete absence, develops due to the spread of inflammation in the seminal tubercle. This department corrects the sensitivity of receptors during orgasm.

The reason that ejaculation does not occur may be a long stay in a state of stress

In the chronic course of the pathology and inflammation of the urinary canal, the perception of peripheral fibers and the sensitivity of the spinal centers are significantly impaired. With prostatitis, men feel pain in the lumbar region.

In medicine, premature ejaculation means a period of time between the introduction of the penis into the partner's vagina and the onset of ejaculation. There is no exact definition of the term "premature ejaculation", however, sexologists say that pathological is the onset of ejaculation before a woman receives an orgasm in 50% of cases. Some men experience ejaculation during foreplay. This moment is observed in the acute course of prostatitis or in its long-term chronic course. Nerve receptors are in constant tension, and the slightest irritation leads to the release of ejaculate.

A patient with prostatitis poses a threat to the health of his partner. This is due to the fact that ejaculate release contains a certain level of bacterial flora and infection. With each sexual intercourse, the number of bacteria increases, and as a result, a woman, against the background of reduced immunity, may develop:

Rapid ejaculation with prostatitis or its complete absence is a complication of the disease, not its symptom. In the early stages of the development of pathology, everything can be restored by taking antidepressants and treating with antibacterial drugs.

The nature of the male psyche is such that the slightest violation of sexual function, even after the complete cure of the disease, they still have a fear of intimacy and fear that something will go wrong. This, in turn, leads to sexual neurosis, which is treated by a psychologist. At the first alarming bells, you should contact a urologist and take a weekly course of antibiotics and anti-inflammatory drugs. Treatment with folk remedies in this case will not give a result, it will only provoke the development of the disease. The consequences of chronic and acute prostatitis with Delayed ejaculation make sexual intercourse exhausting, and sometimes even painful for a woman. While spontaneous ejaculation at the stage of foreplay does not even allow intercourse to occur.Both the first and second cases lead to conflicts in the family, and sometimes even entail a divorce. A visit to a urologist will help maintain family well-being.

Originally posted on 2017-07-01 13:27:48.

Problems with ejaculation in men

Delayed ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction characterized by problems with timely ejaculation.

A man fully feels sexual arousal, but even with penis stimulation he cannot achieve the desired ejaculation.

Mental or physical dissatisfaction can lead to difficulty in ejaculation.

Long sex - a problem or a virtue?

There is no such man who has not encountered a problem in bed at least once in his life. If the guy could not finish once, then there is nothing to worry about.

If the embarrassment is repeated from time to time, then a visit to a specialist should not be postponed.

According to statistics, about 5% of men are characterized by delayed ejaculation. Many of them do not worry about this moment, since they are justified by the ability to have long sex.

Where worse for every man is premature ejaculation and thus the dissatisfaction of his partner. But from a medical point of view, both problems are considered abnormal and require treatment.

The absence or delay of ejaculation, as well as premature completion, lead to emotional experiences, complexes, and even fear of a new sexual intercourse.

Irritability accumulates due to shame in front of a woman, which can lead to sexual dysfunction.

The main reasons for delayed ejaculation

The inability to cum normally manifests itself for various reasons.

Temporary reasons may be:

• alcohol intoxication, drug use;
• depression, nervous experiences and stressful conditions;
• feelings about interpersonal relationships;
• lack of desire for a partner, disappointment in her as a woman;
• For emotional men, having sex without love can lead to problems with ejaculation.

Physical reasons why there is a constant delay in ejaculation:

• The process of achieving orgasm is controlled by the nerves and delays occur when they are damaged;
• congenital malformations of the urinary system;
• presence of a venereal infection;
• diabetes disease;
• cardiovascular disease;
• hormonal failure (yes, oddly enough, this is typical for men as well).

How to help with ejaculation problems?

If the causes of delayed ejaculation are not serious, then it will normalize on its own over time. In this case, it is recommended to completely abandon bad habits.

Frequent exercise will also be beneficial, as there is a large surge of testosterone during physical activity in the gym.

If sexual intercourse (masturbation is not an exception) occurs very often, then their frequency should be slightly reduced.

If general recommendations do not help, then a more serious cause is hidden under the problem and treatment is required.

To quickly get rid of an uncomfortable condition, it is better to consult a doctor.

The inability to cum against the background of nerves and experiences is eliminated by taking medicinal herbs. Herbal teas are also useful, which stimulate blood circulation and thus have a beneficial effect on male strength.

In the presence of inflammatory processes in the body, decoctions of medicinal herbs are recommended.

If the cause of the ejaculatory problem lies in taking drugs, then after consulting a doctor, another therapy without side effects is prescribed.

Please note that there is no official remedy for the treatment of delayed ejaculation, but there are drugs that actively contribute to its stimulation.

Consequences of problems with ejaculation

In the presence of a syndrome of prolonged sex or the complete absence of ejaculation, a man's normal sexual life is disrupted. As a result of this, stress, irritation and nervousness appear, and, most importantly, fear of new sexual intimacy.

It is important to try to eliminate the dysfunction in time, because in the future it is fraught with infertility.

Preventive measures

• Complete renunciation of alcohol, drugs and smoking.
• Intense sports
• Normalization of sleep and the presence of proper rest.
• Avoiding stressful situations, conflicts with your partner.
• Show sexual intercourse with a woman in the form of foreplay.
• Periodic diagnosis of the body for the presence of diseases.

Ejaculation problems are not always as scary as they seem. Perhaps the disease is only psychological in nature.

Why doesn't a man cum during sex?

There is a stereotype that orgasm in men comes easily, and sexual contact necessarily ends with ejaculation, most importantly, not too fast. But it turns out that there is such a violation as difficulty in ejaculation, in which a man cannot cum during intercourse or ejaculation occurs after a long period of time from its onset.

And both partners get tired of this. This disorder occurs much less frequently than accelerated ejaculation, but it worries no less.

Reasons why a man doesn't cum during sex

A man is unable to cum during sex (despite all the efforts made to speed it up), although he is sexually aroused and has a normal erection. In other words, he is unable to achieve orgasm.

There are enough reasons for such a violation, and it can be both periodic and permanent.

• The most common reason that a man does not finish is alcohol intoxication. In this state, the excitability of the ejaculation center located in the lumbar spine decreases, all sensations are dulled. However, men who abuse alcohol also have other sexual problems.
• Another common reason that negatively affects a man's sexual performance is fatigue. It is provoked by troubles at work, chronic lack of sleep, physical and emotional overwork, protracted stressful situations.
• Increased focus on the result, not the process. This, for example, happens when planning a pregnancy or having sex on a schedule, when spouses cannot conceive a child for a long time, or caring for a newborn baby does not allow a young mother to constantly satisfy her husband's desires.
• Unconscious suppression of ejaculation due to fear that the partner will become pregnant.

• Squeamishness and disgust for a partner. For example, if the previous sexual intercourse was carried out during menstruation and was accompanied by significant bleeding.
• Low sensation or loss of glans. This is usually facilitated by a lifestyle associated with smoking or taking drugs, trauma to the genital organ or groin, as well as health problems - diabetes, obesity, heart disease, infectious diseases of the genitourinary system (tuberculosis, urethritis), injuries or tumors of the spinal cord, disease Parkinson's disease, multiple sclerosis.
• Disturbances after bladder or prostate surgery.
• Prolonged use of antidepressants, diuretics.

When ejaculation is delayed during intercourse, up to 75% of men are able to complete it with masturbation. In principle, masturbation is considered one of the psychogenic reasons why a man cannot cum during sex. An erotic stereotype is formed that is inadequate to the sensations inherent in sexual intercourse, that is, sex does not provide the state in which ejaculation is possible. For example, the mechanical effect on the sexual organ is too weak, and therefore the excitement does not increase to the level of sexual discharge.