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Most men underestimate the severity of prostatitis symptoms by deliberately ignoring them. They do not understand that the pathology will not go away by itself. Without treatment, prostatitis can lead to impotence. In addition to discomfort in the perineum, pain when urinating and a burning sensation, due to prostatitis, there may be such a problem as rapid ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. If you ignore the signs of pathology for a long time, then this is inevitable. Eliminate the disease should be in the early stages, so as not to encounter complications.
The complete absence of ejaculation in medicine is commonly called aspermia. Ejaculation occurs in a man on a subconscious level, this is a reflex completion of each full-fledged sexual intercourse. A man cannot control this process; the brain and spinal cord are responsible for its onset. At the same time, the erection itself is stable, the patient feels the onset of orgasm, but the orgasm itself does not occur, and if sensations do occur, then the ejection of sperm does not occur. Under such circumstances, a man cannot get full satisfaction, respectively, sexual contact is considered pathological.
Absence of ejaculation or anejaculation refers to the inability of men to ejaculate during normal intercourse
The reason for the lack of ejaculation can be:
The cause may also be a severely inflamed urethra, which is not able to pass the ejaculate. Under the influence of the disease, the body uses all hidden reserves to fight pathogenic flora, respectively, there are fewer vitamins and microelements left for other processes.
In addition to the physiological causes of ejaculation disorders, there are also psychological aspects. A man during the period of illness feels inferior. Chronic fatigue, stress, antipathy to the partner or an unfortunate place for sexual intercourse can affect the psyche of a man even more. As a result, ejaculation does not occur. Ejaculation and prostatitis are closely related concepts, therefore, after the complete elimination of the disease, the condition and sexual function of a man is completely restored.
The consequences of untreated prostatitis may be the opposite of the previous situation, Premature ejaculation may occur and sexual intercourse will be short. premature ejaculation, as well as its complete absence, develops due to the spread of inflammation in the seminal tubercle. This department corrects the sensitivity of receptors during orgasm.
The reason that ejaculation does not occur may be a long stay in a state of stress
In the chronic course of the pathology and inflammation of the urinary canal, the perception of peripheral fibers and the sensitivity of the spinal centers are significantly impaired. With prostatitis, men feel pain in the lumbar region.
In medicine, premature ejaculation means a period of time between the introduction of the penis into the partner's vagina and the onset of ejaculation. There is no exact definition of the term "premature ejaculation", however, sexologists say that pathological is the onset of ejaculation before a woman receives an orgasm in 50% of cases. Some men experience ejaculation during foreplay. This moment is observed in the acute course of prostatitis or in its long-term chronic course. Nerve receptors are in constant tension, and the slightest irritation leads to the release of ejaculate.
A patient with prostatitis poses a threat to the health of his partner. This is due to the fact that ejaculate release contains a certain level of bacterial flora and infection. With each sexual intercourse, the number of bacteria increases, and as a result, a woman, against the background of reduced immunity, may develop:
Rapid ejaculation with prostatitis or its complete absence is a complication of the disease, not its symptom. In the early stages of the development of pathology, everything can be restored by taking antidepressants and treating with antibacterial drugs.
The nature of the male psyche is such that the slightest violation of sexual function, even after the complete cure of the disease, they still have a fear of intimacy and fear that something will go wrong. This, in turn, leads to sexual neurosis, which is treated by a psychologist. At the first alarming bells, you should contact a urologist and take a weekly course of antibiotics and anti-inflammatory drugs. Treatment with folk remedies in this case will not give a result, it will only provoke the development of the disease. The consequences of chronic and acute prostatitis with delayed ejaculation make sexual intercourse exhausting, and sometimes even painful for a woman. While spontaneous ejaculation at the stage of foreplay does not even allow intercourse to occur.Both the first and second cases lead to conflicts in the family, and sometimes even entail a divorce. A visit to a urologist will help maintain family well-being.
Originally posted on 2017-07-01 13:27:48.
The prostate is involved in sexual intercourse no less than the mouth and throat are involved in eating
Sex with prostatitis is the most pleasant and quite effective method of massaging the prostate, able to empty the tubules, remove some of the plugs that contribute to stagnation.
It is not advisable to completely deprive the prostate of work. Just as swallowing and chewing cleans the mouth, so ejaculation frees the prostate from inflamed contents. However, excessive force or frequency of exposure will only keep the inflammation going.
In fact, the main rule of intimate life in chronic prostatitis is only one regular and high-quality sex. The most emotional, which can provide the highest quality ejaculation, bring positive emotions and eliminate stagnation in the pelvis.
The rest only refines the individual parameters in terms of frequency and repeatability. It depends on the degree of inflammation, the sexual constitution of a man, lifestyle, real opportunities, and finally, after all, not always a person can give himself what he needs.
You need to consciously limit your intimate life, simply because in practice it can be difficult to resist excesses.
The number of sexual contacts per week depends, as already mentioned, on age, sexual constitution and tolerance ("report" on the influence of past sex is analyzed by me and the man himself).
For family people, it is more often recommended to maintain the same, familiar rhythm, and the body insists on providing it with such an opportunity. Loners, on the other hand, focus on quality, not quantity. This is the main criterion that must be fulfilled.
If you want to get an aggravation with a high probability, then you can. At a minimum, this will give an unpleasant feeling of fullness, as a maximum, the affected areas of the prostate will increase in volume by 2-3 times.
Masturbation is a substitute for sex. More often a paler substitute, sometimes vice versa.
In connection with the greater possibility of artificial regulation of the duration of the act, we introduce an additional requirement: to completely eliminate "delays"! Masturbation is used for therapeutic purposes, and for this it is quite short and effective. No long lazy hours in front of the TV or computer.
Prostatitis is unlikely to start even from long abstinence. But to provoke an exacerbation of an already existing one is easy, just against the background of a forced or conscious renunciation of sexual activity.
Therefore, we consider a certain golden mean to be optimal. To ensure both peace and stagnation to clean up on time, without waiting for the progression of the disease.
The role of sex in prostatitis is difficult to overestimate; they need and can be dealt with. Proximity has an effect on the prostate, the strength and direction of which depends on the quality of ejaculation, first of all.
In addition, blood circulation in the pelvic area improves, sexual contact can disperse blood even in a man with a sedentary job.
It may be initially non-infectious, or become so during the course of treatment. When all microbes were destroyed by antibiotics, and prostatitis remained. This is exactly the case that even experienced urologists treat poorly.
Only high-quality and active sexual intercourse becomes healing, along with finger massage and exercise therapy. Sluggish intimacy, with weak ejaculation, unfortunately does not have such an ability. There is no big trouble in this, you just have to definitely seek medical help.
During exacerbations, it is imperative to take into account its probable causes. For example, if the cause was an "overload" of the prostate, it would be better to give it a little rest.
Sexual contacts are allowed and necessary, but only with mandatory protection in a condom. In general, it is good for healing but dangerous for the partner!
Antibiotics do not act instantly, treatment can go "in layers" and be accompanied by the release of pus from distant foci. If a liquid that looks a little like sperm comes out of the prostate during ejaculation, it will cause inflammation, hitting the tender places of a woman.
If acute prostatitis is not a hospital condition (no high fever, excruciating pain), then one of the best possible treatments would be good sexual intercourse, oddly enough.
I described in one of the books the story of my colleague, who, against the backdrop of flu, fever and pain in the prostate, had sex with his lover. By morning he was well. He recovered both from the flu and removed the exacerbation without medical procedures, manipulations and drugs.
When communicating with young men on the forum, I do not try to delve too deeply into diagnostics and injection pills. If I suspect not very neglected prostatitis, often already chronic, I immediately give the appointment to normalize sexual life.
A report after 2-3 weeks very often sounds optimistic everything is in order, there are no complaints, the condition is excellent!. And this man will never even know that with a different approach, he would have been diagnosed with chronic prostatitis, would have been treated, most likely with traditional antibiotics, and so on. I do otherwise, I give a chance that intimacy can help much more effectively in some cases.
Such emergency prevention for many men is the most effective treatment. Just because he has time in the early stages, while the prostatitis is not so neglected. In fact, sexual contacts are much more pleasant and more accessible, especially when compared with the availability of a good urologist.
Let me remind you that we are talking only about high-quality, active and emotional sex. Only in this case it is possible to do without the intervention of a doctor with minor manifestations.
Some urologists and venereologists forbid having sex with prostatitis at the beginning of a course of antibiotics. For fear of "spread of infection". The fear is justified, in general. But when using a condom and modern drugs, the benefits usually outweigh the possible risks. I'm not talking about one day, one date, which is really better to miss.
Even with abacterial prostatitis, ejaculate can cause irritation when in contact with the female genital organs.
Microbial and fungal prostatitis even more so. For example, they can provoke a "thrush" in a partner. Even within a few days after starting antibiotic therapy. Medicines may not instantly neutralize bacteria.
The precaution is understandable condom. It's better not to risk it. Although, of course, there is no guarantee that "infection" will occur with a 100% probability. After all, a woman has immunity. But in practice, the risk is quite high.
You can have sex if your husband has prostatitis and pain. But while there is no certainty in the abacterial nature of the inflammation and until it subsides in a condom!
Desire is what a person is capable of and. activate. Appetite comes with eating. Sexual appetite will also come during a date. But it is better to tune in in advance and get excited as much as possible. Though with fantasy, even in reality.
Among other recommendations, I can ask a man to concentrate not on the usual visual images, but on tactile and olfactory perception. They are less controlled by the brain and relatively directly turn the reproductive system into action.
In such a situation, you need to decide individually.
Replacement of proximity are exercise therapy and finger massage of the prostate gland. But this is for the last resort. It is better and more efficient to find out what the matter is and help your beloved husband in a shy question for him.
Man's desire can often disappear from the banal expectation of failure.He wants to wait until the treatment is over, when the potency returns to normal and then start having sex. However, this entails a "vicious circle". Without desire, there is no sex, the treatment is delayed, and this kills an already reduced desire.
That's why, in this case, a loving wife has to take matters into her own hands. Often, it is enough just to start the process and the desire somehow comes by itself, unexpectedly for a man.
The rhythm of sexual relations is strictly individual and depends on age (there is no single norm at 17 and 60), on the sexual constitution. For example, a strong Caucasian or a Frenchman conditionally needs a few daily acts, and a "nerd" even at a young age feels better with weekly sex. And all this is the norm.
Dependence on work, the possibility of meeting with a beloved woman also plays a role, often restraining. Stress, "parking" at work also reduce arousal and reduce the need.
Sex life is one of the functions of the body, which is necessary for health, nutrition and restoration of the prostate gland. The transition from conditional "rest" 2-3 times a week for a young man to 3-5 times, with periodic repetitions, and then to daily or almost daily contacts (subject to excellent tolerance, I emphasize) will create a mode of operation of the prostate, which is not tires, does not overload, cleanses enough and reduces the risk of getting prostatitis to a minimum.
For a man who decides to take care of his health, it makes sense to switch to the same rhythm, sex at will, with the exception of quarrels and insults, which often unsettle initially healthy men.
The maximum quality of sex with the exclusion of STDs, "contagious infections" and the risk of prostatitis will be practically eliminated even during sedentary work or after hypothermia.
Society's attitude towards stimulating the genitals for sexual gratification is ambiguous, but the use of masturbation for prostatitis may be a necessary adjunct treatment for the disease. Depending on the intensity of the inflammatory process, masturbation can be harmful or beneficial.
When asking if masturbation can be done with prostatitis, it is necessary to consider the possible positive and negative effects on the prostate as a result of orgasm stimulation.
The following processes can be attributed to positive results:
Removal of stagnation of prostatic secretion. Prolonged abstinence is considered by urologists and andrologists as one of the main reasons for the development of prostatitis. In the process of ejaculation, along with sperm, the prostatic secret comes out, carrying along bacteria, infections, which are the causative agents of the disease. Thus, there is a cleansing of the prostate gland and the treatment of prostatitis by masturbation. Normalization of hormonal background. Regular ejaculation during masturbation normalizes the production of testosterone. Even thoughts of sexual satisfaction cause a hormonal surge in men and can treat sexual dysfunction caused by prostatitis. Stagnation in the prostate can provoke the growth of organ tissues in men suffering from adenoma. However, excessive testosterone production can lead to a recurrence of the adenomatous process, therefore, in the absence of a sexual partner, it is necessary to discuss the need and frequency of masturbation with your doctor. Reducing the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. In addition to positive emotions, a man runs the risk of contracting viral, bacterial infections, fungus and parasitic diseases. In addition, with a frequent change of sexual partner, even if she is not infected, prostate disorders can be caused by foreign microflora entering the body. An alternative to prostate massage. Stimulation of the gland is one of the best ways to treat prostatitis. During masturbation, there is a rush of blood to the pelvic organs, there is a contraction of the muscles of the perineum, and their effect on the prostate gland resembles manipulations performed during massage. Possibility of regular ejaculation. Inflammation of the prostate gland is accompanied by pain in the groin, frequent urge to urinate, premature ejaculation and other disorders of the genitourinary system. This causes difficulties in interacting with the second half. Dissatisfaction on the part of the partner affects the psychological state of the man and can lead to the impossibility of sexual intercourse. In this case, self-stimulation of the prostate gland is the only way out of its release from pathogenic microflora. Immunity boost. With sexual satisfaction, the level of cortisol in the blood increases, which helps to strengthen the immune system. Improving the psychological state.Pain and discomfort in the perineal area with chronic prostatitis affect the mood, performance, quality of life of a man. Under the influence of good mood hormones - oxytocin and dopamine, a masturbating man feels more energetic, becomes more optimistic, finds the strength to fight the disease. Despite a number of positive aspects, masturbation with prostatitis can adversely affect health.
Medical recommendations boil down to the need to masturbate no more than 2-3 times a week only if a man does not have the opportunity to have sex with a partner. Abuse of self-gratification only harms the condition of the prostate. People who are fond of masturbation are interested in the question: is it possible for the occurrence of prostatitis from onanism. If you often ejaculate, there may be an excessive tension of the secreting sections of the prostate, a failure of its recovery mechanisms and, as a result, inflammation of the organ.
The passion for masturbation leads to inhibition of the centers of erection and ejaculation, resulting in impotence. In a man who constantly masturbates, but does not have sex with a partner, the gland is greatly enlarged and susceptible to infections that enter through the urethral canal and cause inflammation. Onanism does not have the best effect on the functioning of the nervous system and often leads to neurasthenia. It can be recognized by the following symptoms:
This condition usually does not last long and disappears within a day, however, the constant abuse of onanism can lead to serious mental disorders: obsessive fears, mania. On the part of the genitourinary system, there is an increase in pollutions, the urge to urinate, pain and burning in the urethra occur.
Considering masturbation as a remedy for prostatitis, it is important to remember that an overabundance of any medicine is a poison. Only in a dosed amount in the absence of a sexual partner, masturbation is recommended as a prophylaxis for prostatitis, a way to eliminate stagnation in the prostate, prevent recurrence of the disease, and speed up the healing process.