How to put on and use a condom correctly for pleasure and protection

Many of us know that contraceptives are an important part of a healthy sex life. It is condoms that protect against unwanted pregnancy, as well as against sexually transmitted diseases. However, the effectiveness of such contraception directly depends on how correctly a man uses a condom.

Why and why condoms are used

Condoms are the most popular and most effective method of contraception. There are many benefits to using a condom:

• reliably protects against sexually transmitted infections;
• is an excellent remedy for preventing unwanted pregnancies;
• has an affordable price, is on free sale;
• easy to use;
• compact size, fits easily even in a small pocket;
• has practically no contraindications.

The only limitation that applies to the use of condoms is the possible intolerance of the human body to the material (its components) from which they are made. For example, some people suffer from latex allergies - contraceptives made from this material will not work for them.

Despite the fact that condoms cannot guarantee 100% protection, they are still quite effective, which is why absolutely all doctors recommend using them for their patients. The likelihood that intercourse will lead to an unwanted pregnancy or STI infection is minimized, which is very important in the modern world. Therefore, there is no point in asking why men who are sexually active wear condoms.

Even if it seems to you that a condom reduces the sensitivity and sensations during sex with it are far from the same as during intimacy without a contraceptive, you are mistaken. If you suddenly notice a decrease in sensitivity from using a condom - most likely, you simply chose the wrong size.

For demanding customers, many manufacturers offer separate lines of thin and ultra-thin condoms. If standard products have a wall thickness of 1 mm, then the thickness of special condoms can be about 0.02 mm. At the same time, their effectiveness remains at the same high level, but tactile sensations become as natural as possible.

It should be noted that the use of a condom is necessary not only for casual contacts, but also during sex with a regular partner. This way, you can even plan a pregnancy by preventing accidental leakage of seminal fluid into the female genital tract. If you are using interruption, you should understand that this is not a reliable way to prevent unwanted pregnancies, while condoms can guarantee more than 90% protection.

Which condoms are best for regular sex

Many people find it difficult to decide which condoms to use so that they provide the protection they need - and are safe for their health. When choosing a contraceptive, first of all, you should pay attention to its manufacturer. Only reputable companies can offer you really high-quality condoms, while the first and cheapest products that come to hand may have low strength or tear resistance.

In addition, you should choose those condoms that would work for you and your partner. The fact is that latex, from which most condoms are made, can cause allergic reactions. And if you or your chosen one are allergic to this material, it is better to give preference to polyurethane products. They have a higher cost, but will provide you with reliable protection and comfort.

In no case should you buy standard-sized contraceptives. No matter how it sounds, they turn out to be too big for most men. The size chart of condoms should be given due attention, because your safety and convenience during its use directly depends on the correct selection.

Products that are too large can slide out of the penis and you will have to constantly correct them. In addition, if the condom does not fit tightly enough on the penis, it can cause sperm to leak out of it. On the contrary, small contraceptives squeeze the penis too much, which can cause impaired blood flow to it. They can also tear during use due to strong tension, which is also very unsafe.

Many men are interested in whether it is possible to use condoms that have already expired. The answer to this question is negative.After the expiration date, contraceptives begin to decompose, and even if outwardly no damage is visible, they can be invisible to the naked eye. Such a condom is likely to break or even irritate the genitals.

Also, in no case should you use condoms if the integrity of their packaging is broken. They should only be stored in sealed containers, otherwise their use will be unsafe for you and your partner. In addition, damage can be not only on the packaging, but also on the condom itself, which potentially reduces its protective properties.

What a condom looks like

The appearance of a male condom is probably known to everyone - and even to those who have never used one. On one side of the condom there is a reservoir for semen, on the other there is an elastic ring that helps the product to stay on the penis. In the package, the condoms are neatly rolled up so that you can quickly put them on. By the way, the convenience of using a condom directly depends on the process of putting on a condom.

But only a few know how female condoms look. This method of contraception is not very popular due to the lack of quality advertising. Although this type of condom really deserves the attention of women, since it allows you to independently decide whether you want to use contraception or not - and not depend on the opinion of a man.

Female condoms are somewhat similar to male condoms, but they have rings on both sides. One ring completely closed - it must be placed inside the vagina. The open ring remains outside and does not interfere with the insertion of the penis, preventing the condom from completely submerging into the vagina.

Most female condoms come in one standard size. They are about 16.3-18.3 cm long and 7.6-8.3 cm wide, depending on the manufacturer. At the same time, doctors recommend that women in the postpartum period give preference to a large condom due to the fact that the vaginal muscles have not yet acquired their usual tone.

The effectiveness of this method of contraception directly depends on how correctly the condom is worn. In general, female condoms are considered quite effective, as they protect against unwanted pregnancies by 80%, which is quite a good result. In addition, since the outer part of the condom slightly covers the genitals and the outside, it can be an excellent protection against diseases of the labia, as well as the base of the penis and perineum.

If a man, planning oral sex, puts on a condom - he also cares about his own safety and the safety of his partner. But not everyone knows that there are also special condoms for cunnilingus. Outwardly, they look like a regular napkin, but are made of latex. They must be applied to the vulva to avoid infecting both partners with very unpleasant diseases.

Latex wipes, as well as other contraceptives, can be purchased at any pharmacy. If you didn't buy them in advance, you can turn a regular clean condom into a cunnilingus napkin. To do this, simply cut off the end of the semen reservoir condom and then cut to length. The latex wipe you create will be just as effective as the one you can buy at the pharmacy.

When condoms were introduced

Condoms are a fairly old invention. The first information about this method of contraception was found in a treatise on syphilis dated 1564. At that time, condoms were made in the form of a linen cover, which was previously soaked in a special solution and then dried. Such a cover was put on the head of the penis, and fastened with a special garter.

Proof that the first condoms were made a very long time ago, is one specimen, which was found in Sweden. According to the available data, the contraceptive found was made back in 1640. At that time, condoms had already gained immense popularity. They were widely used both to prevent pregnancy and as a reliable protection against genital infections.

Already in 1843, vulcanization was patented in England for the first time, but the first condoms made from rubber appeared only in 1855. Their production quickly gained momentum - and after a short period of time, the release became mass. After use, the rubber condom could be washed and reapplied many times after that, thanks to which they gained immense popularity. However, people who wanted to experience the most natural feeling from using condoms for a long time gave preference to leather products.

When latex was invented in 1920, condoms were also produced from this material. Their strength, elasticity and shelf life were much longer than rubber condoms.At the same time, they were thinner and could provide a brighter sensation. Already in 1990, the first standards for the manufacture of condoms were established. Since then, absolutely all manufacturers of condoms, before launching their products on the sale, have been electrically tested for the absence of holes in them. Only those products that passed the test were packaged and released for sale.

Condoms became most popular after 1981, when acquired immunodeficiency syndrome began to spread. As soon as experts determined that the disease was transmitted directly through sexual contact, multiple advertising campaigns were launched that talked about the effectiveness of condoms in preventing AIDS infection. Since condoms also protect against other STIs and unwanted pregnancies, condoms have become the most popular method of contraception.

The composition of the condom (material) and its effect

On the shelves of pharmacies and specialty stores, you can find condoms made from several different materials, including:

• latex is the most popular (but can cause allergies);
• polyurethane is the best replacement for latex if you are allergic to it;
• polyisoprene - does not desensitize;
• lamb intestine is a natural material but not effective in protecting against STIs.

Naturally, the composition of condoms directly depends on the material from which they are made.

The most common and affordable for every consumer are latex condoms. Latex is a material that comes from the sap of the hevea tree, which grows in Southeast Asia. Juice is extracted according to the same principle as birch juice. Natural rubber makes up almost 90% of the total composition of a latex condom. Various additives, thanks to which the finished product has the necessary strength and elasticity, are contained in the composition only by 10%. Latex condom additives include vulcanizers and stabilizers. Flavors can also be used.

Latex is a fairly durable material, it stretches well, but does not tear. Among the disadvantages of this material, it is worth highlighting the incompatibility with fats: oil lubricants cannot be used with such a condom. In addition, latex condoms should not be left in direct sunlight - their effect is damaging to the material.

For some people, latex causes irritation and allergies, which makes them unable to use latex condoms in sex. If you belong to this category of users, you can give preference to hypoallergenic latex: it contains a significantly smaller amount of complex proteins that cause allergic reactions. You can also try using condoms made from polymers.

Polyurethane condoms are a great alternative to latex ones. In addition to the fact that they do not cause allergies, their distinctive feature is also the minimum wall thickness, which can be only 0.02 mm, while the strength of the contraceptive does not suffer. Polyurethane is a heterochain polymeric substance. It is hypoallergenic and suitable even for people who have too sensitive skin, as well as those who are prone to allergic reactions.

Polyurethane condoms have many advantages, including:

• long shelf life;
• high resistance to UV rays;
• absence of dangerous and potentially dangerous impurities in the composition;
• high strength and good elasticity;
• excellent compatibility with all types of lubricants, incl. those that are oil-based;
• the absence of fragrances in the composition, since the material does not have an unpleasant odor.

Despite the thinness of the walls, polyurethane condoms reliably protect against STIs, as well as against unwanted pregnancies. Of the shortcomings, it is worth noting a narrow size range, which is why not every man can choose such a condom for himself. In addition, they are quite difficult to find in pharmacies, and their cost is slightly higher than the price of latex products.

An excellent condom option for people who want all the benefits of latex and the safety of polyurethane in one product are polyisoprene condoms. This material is a synthetic analogue of latex. It is made by polymerizing isoprene, which is obtained from natural rubber.

Despite the fact that polyisoprene is made from rubber, it does not contain natural proteins that some people are allergic to. It is devoid of all the shortcomings of natural material, but retained its advantages. Polyisoprene condoms are expensive, but perhaps their benefits will help you turn a blind eye to that disadvantage.

The least popular are condoms made from lamb intestines, despite the fact that it is the oldest material from which contraceptives were made centuries ago. Many people think about how to use a condom made by their intestines, but, in fact, such contraceptives are no different in use from the usual latex or other products for all.

Condoms from the intestine do not cause allergies, they perfectly conduct heat and allow you to experience the most realistic sensations during sex, they will protect you from unwanted pregnancy no worse than latex ones. Still, they have significant disadvantages. First of all, this is poor protection against sexually transmitted diseases, and secondly, the high cost. But the choice, as always, is yours. If you want unusual sensations and are sure that you and your partner do not have genital infections, you can resort to using such a contraceptive.

How to test a condom

Condoms are a reliable method of contraception, but only if you know how to properly put on a condom, as well as how to check it before buying and using it. If you do not check the contraceptive or use it incorrectly, the effect of its use may be zero.

The very first check of condoms should take place at the time of purchase. You need to make sure that their expiration date has not yet expired. Choose only those packages that clearly show the production date and expiration date. If condoms are expired, this indicates that their structure may no longer be integral. And if the condoms are already sold with lubrication, then in this case it is also most likely already expired - and then it will be unsafe for your health.

Even if contraceptives have not yet expired, it is important that they are stored properly. This applies to both the place where they are sold and the way they are stored at home. Keep condoms away from sources of heat, as well as in places with normal humidity. It is important that the packaging is not exposed to direct sunlight. Never leave condoms in places where they can be deformed (pocket, purse).

Before putting on a condom, make sure that the expiration date indicated on the individual packaging has not yet expired. It is better to check the suitability of the product once again than not to notice how it will break in the process of proximity.

On individual packaging, in no case should there be scuffs, holes or tears. If you notice such traces, it is better to stop using this contraceptive. Also, once in a torn package, the condom can simply dry out - and during use it will certainly tear.

The easiest way to check if the package is intact is to apply some pressure on the package. If you feel a slight air resistance, then the package is intact and, most likely, the condom located in it can be used. You can check if the lubricated contraceptive is dry by gently pressing it in the package and trying to move it with a sliding motion to the side. If the product slips, the lubricant has not lost its properties.

There is a high chance that the condom will not cope with the protection - in case the guy wears a condom of the wrong size. A large product can slip off at the most inopportune moment, and a small one can burst. That is why, before buying a contraceptive, be sure to look at the back of the package, where the numbers indicate the width of the condom. Only if it matches the diameter of your penis, such a condom can be used.

How to use the female condom

Female condoms are not very popular, but very effective method of contraception. If a girl wants to be confident in her safety or, for any reason, partners cannot use male condoms that are common to everyone, this is an important reason to try using female condoms. In addition, they can be used during masturbation using various sex toys to be sure of your safety.

If almost everyone knows how to put a condom on a penis, then not everyone is familiar with female contraceptives. Their effectiveness also depends on the correct use of these condoms, so it is important to follow certain rules. First of all, of course, you need to check the expiration date of the product. It is better to do this at the time of purchase, so as not to be upset immediately before use.

It is necessary to open individual packaging very carefully so as not to damage its structure. Under no circumstances should scissors or other cutting objects be used. Avoid the idea of opening the package with your teeth, even if your hands are busy doing something else.Even though female condoms are already lubricated, use extra lubricant. It must be applied to the partner's penis / toy or directly inside the condom. Make sure the lubricant you are using is compatible with the material of the condom.

Dressing a condom for women is very similar to inserting a tampon into the vagina. First of all, you need to take a comfortable position:

• throwing one leg over the chair;
• squatting;
• lying down.

You can do this in the same position in which you are used to inserting the tampon.

The smaller, closed ring must be squeezed and the condom inserted like a tampon. It is necessary to insert a condom into the vagina as deeply as possible so that its end is as close as possible to the cervix. Then insert your finger into the condom to spread it, push it in even further, and make sure it does not wrap.

The big ring should stay outside. It should cover not only the opening of the vaginal opening, but also the area around it. It is very convenient that female condoms can be left inside for a long time - up to 10 hours. That way, you won't have to mess around with it when the wave of passion hits you.

During intercourse, you need to make sure that the penis is inserted into the condom, and not between it and the vaginal wall. If a member is entered incorrectly, you will be left without protection. To be sure of the correct introduction, take this task on yourself, and do not trust it to a partner.

After a man ejaculates, you need to twist the outer ring as quickly as possible to prevent semen from leaking onto the labia and inside the vagina. Then immediately remove the product in the same way as removing a tampon. Be sure to tie up the used condom and throw it into the trash can. In no case should you think about how you can use a condom again - this is not safe for your health.

How to wear a condom correctly

The way a man puts on a condom also directly affects your safety during sex. It is important that all the nuances are taken into account, and the rules are followed, otherwise the sexual intercourse can be considered unprotected. When using a male condom, proceed as follows:

Many men get turned on when a girl puts a condom on his penis. And even if you decide to entrust this task to your partner, make sure that she does everything right. Only in this way will the use of the condom be effective.

If the condom squeezes or slips out of the penis, this means that you have chosen the wrong size. In this case, it is better to avoid using the product - and choose the one that suits you in size.

After ejaculating, immediately remove the condom by holding it against the rubber band to prevent semen spillage. Throw away the used condom in the trash can. Never reapply it.

Top rated condoms

Every man chooses the right condoms for himself - and not always the ones that meet your needs can lead the ratings of the best contraceptives. However, men have favorites that deserve special attention.

So, it is worth highlighting the German MY.SIZE condoms, presented in a wide range of sizes. The manufacturer can offer its customers condoms in widths from 47 to 69 mm. If you need custom-sized contraceptives, this is one of the best solutions, since no other manufacturer can offer you a wider choice.

Durex condoms are also popular. Although these condoms are of a standard size, the manufacturer surprises users with different types of condoms. Among the company's assortment, you can find ultra-thin, super-strong, sensation-enhancing, with various structures - and many other types of contraceptives. If you want unusual sensations, you should definitely look for condoms among the product line of this brand.

The name of the condom does not, of course, affect its effectiveness, but well-known brand products guarantee you a higher level of safety than those that you do not know anything about. Trust only trusted manufacturers and purchase condoms only in specialized locations.

Does the condom actually protect

So, the effectiveness of using condoms directly depends on how the condom is put on, whether the rules for its storage were followed, how correctly the package was opened - and on many other factors. Condoms are indeed the most effective method of contraception, regardless of whether you are using the usual male models, female or cunnilingus condoms.

By using quality contraceptives and knowing how to properly put a condom on your penis, you protect yourself from unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections, and many other unpleasant consequences. It is necessary to use condoms during every intercourse. You can avoid their use only if both you and your partner have recently passed all clinical studies that confirmed that you do not have venereal diseases - and you have not had relationships with other partners after that. In all other cases, sex without a condom can be unsafe for your health and even your life.

Advice. Panova Alisa, andrologist

Many people think that the rules for using a condom are very simple - and nothing special about them. But still, a huge number of people make mistakes at the same time, which practically nullify the protective properties of condoms.

The most common mistake is incorrect sizing. Tight-fitting condoms can reduce the blood supply to the organ, which can cause you to have erection problems. In addition, they can break at the most crucial moment, because of which you will remain unprotected.

It is not uncommon for men to forget to leave space at the tip of the condom, which should serve as a reservoir for sperm. In this case, the seminal fluid will drain along the penis and, as a result, can get onto the female genital organs. In addition, air trapped in the reservoir could rupture the condom.

It is also important to remove the condom on time. The penis, more often than not, comes to a state of calm within a short period of time after ejaculation. If you do not remove the condom before the erection disappears, a free space is formed between it and the penis, sperm will flow through it, which can get on the partner's genitals.

Advice. Radevich Igor Tadeushevich, sexologist

A properly sized condom is your confidence that it will be used effectively. If you make a mistake, you can, at best, experience discomfort during the use of a condom, and at worst, be left without protection in an intimate moment if the condom breaks or falls off.

The width of the condom plays a more important role in the size of the condom, rather than the length, as is commonly thought among men. A long contraceptive can not be fully deployed, and a short one will not affect the quality of protection. But too loose or tight-fitting condom is an inconvenience and a high probability of a decrease in the level of protection.

That is why you need to correctly measure the width of your penis and, based on this value, select a contraceptive. It is best to use a tape measure to measure the length of the girth. It should be used to measure the widest part of the penis - at the base. Diameter (traditionally indicated on condom packaging) can be found by dividing the girth length by 3.14.

In some men, the head of the penis is wider than its shaft, so it is worth calculating the average width of the organ by summing the length of the girth of the head, the middle and the base of the penis and dividing the resulting value by 3.