Orgasm for men - what you need to know about it, what happens, how to achieve

Many scientific works have been written about the female peak of pleasure, there are various rumors and speculations, while the representatives of the stronger sex (in this regard) are much less talked about. It is believed that orgasm in men is an integral part of sex. Most people are sure that it always comes, manifests itself by ejaculation and does not differ in particular complexity of nervous regulation. Sexologists, however, argue that there are several options for climax and ways to achieve it in men, and not everyone has an orgasm.

Male orgasm - what is it

Male orgasm is the physiological completion of sexual intercourse, which is manifested by a feeling of satisfaction and higher pleasure. It should not be confused with the process of ejaculation, since they are controlled by different zones of the nervous system, and can even occur independently of each other.

About 95% of sexual intercourse ends with a full male culmination, in other cases, ejaculation is observed without satisfaction, or ejaculation does not occur. An anonymous survey showed that some guys fake during sex, and this happens 2 times more often during oral sex.

Therefore, the problem of male sexual satisfaction is as important as knowledge about the characteristics of female orgasm.

Types and types

There are different classifications of male orgasms, but most often they are subdivided into 6 options.

Classic

The climax occurs in response to direct tactile stimulation of the penis by the walls of the vagina, hands, mouth, body, or "adult toys". The penis contains the maximum number of nerve endings, so it reacts best to external influences, and this gives the man maximum pleasant sensations.

The classic orgasm is not always violent: in some it is manifested by pleasant muscle tension up to cramps, vivid emotions, while in others it is a slight sensation of warmth and a spasm in the lower abdomen. Lasts much shorter than female, only 5-10 seconds. In general, everything is so, the nuances depend on the individual characteristics and frequency of sexual intercourse.

Anal

The penis is not the only erogenous zone in the male body. The second most important is the prostate gland. Its stimulation through the rectum causes strong and long-lasting sexual arousal, and with the right action, climax can be reached without touching the penis. Guys who have experienced this experience speak more vividly than the classic version.

Anal orgasm in men is a common and physiological phenomenon. Its presence does not indicate non-traditional sexual orientation, as people of outdated views believe. Prostate stimulation for pleasure is practiced in many heterosexual couples, especially in Europe and America.

No ejaculation

With a dry orgasm, a man experiences a peak of pleasure, muscle contractions in the lower abdomen, emotional reactions and other manifestations of climax habitual for him, but sperm is not released.

Normally, the condition occurs with repeated sex with short interruptions, with proximity against a background of stress and overwork. Less commonly, dry orgasm is triggered by retrograde ejaculation - an unpleasant symptom of urological diseases that requires treatment.

Getting pleasure without ejaculation can be trained, which is practiced in eastern countries. The guy is learning to control his arousal, control frictions and contraction of internal muscles.

No erection

Emissions in boys are a typical representative of this type of orgasm. The higher centers of the cerebral cortex are not involved in its onset, so a person does not experience pleasure.

There is a physiological reaction at the level of the prostate gland and seminal vesicles, which is mainly triggered by hormonal changes in adolescence. Spontaneous emission in an adult is a sign of prolonged abstinence or pathology, when an examination by a doctor (urologist or andrologist) is required.

Orgasm without an erection can be achieved by mature men who have problems with potency, but are still endowed with a high level of libido. They are not able to maintain arousal of the penis, however, thanks to long-term and skillful stimulation of all erogenous zones, they can receive vivid emotional sensations, as in a classic orgasm.

Multiple

Multiorgasm is the best male orgasm.

Those who have experienced it speak of indescribable sensations of bliss and ecstasy that they have not felt before. It is characterized by a series of repeated peaks of pleasure that occur at intervals of several minutes and are not always accompanied by ejaculation.

Multiple orgasms are very rare. Well-known gender psychologist and sexologist Alex May says that during his practice he met only 2 people who had spontaneous multi-orgasm.

The good news is that everyone is able to train their body for multiple climaxes in a row, but this requires about a year of regular training exercises to control arousal and control the pelvic muscles.

Late

The end comes no earlier than 30 minutes after the start of active stimulation of the penis. Often, the feeling of pleasure is blurred, there are small cramps in the lower abdomen and a feeling of "release".

This clinical picture is more often observed in diseases of the genitourinary system, especially with inflammation of the prostate. Prolonged frictions without climax are not the norm for a guy, since ejaculation occurs on average after 5-10 minutes. Why a man cannot finish for a long time, read in detail here.

Late orgasm does not include cases when a partner deliberately delays ejaculation and prolongs intercourse in order to impress the partner, to have time to bring her to a peak.

How does a man feel BEFORE, during and AFTER orgasm

How to achieve the best orgasm: 5 tips for a man

For an enchanting climax, sexologists recommend following these rules:

"Can't finish" - what to do-

It is worth trying different types of male orgasm. For example, to the classic stimulation of the penis add prostate massage, stroking the testicles and perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus).

Intimacy does not happen on schedule or at the request of the spouse - both partners must be horny enough to make it to the finale.

Sometimes a man is advised to abstain a little (3-5 days) to increase his desire and increase the chances of a pleasant ending.

If the above tips do not help, you should turn to harmless ways and means:

• Spray M16
• Rexatal (capsules)
• Ecdysterone (capsules)
• Chinese balls "Golden Deer"
• Potentialex (capsules)

If sexual problems continue for a long time, sometimes without additional symptoms and signs, and are not eliminated by non-drug methods, a man is suspected of having a chronic disease of the genitourinary system. In this case, a consultation with a urologist / andrologist is indicated for a detailed diagnosis of the body and the selection of treatment, if necessary.

3 easy ways to quickly bring a man to orgasm

Harmony in sex is the cornerstone of a strong relationship, so a woman should know about the secret tricks, "how to drive crazy" a partner in bed and give him unforgettable orgasms.

Having pleasure, a man seeks to respond with the same partner, so over time, the quality of intimacy will only improve.

We have prepared 3 working methods for our readers that will help you quickly bring your partner to a climax.

Hand play

Manual movements are the simplest and most reliable method to give a man an enchanting orgasm. Penis caresses should be varied: light teasing strokes, intense stimulation of the head, quick and rhythmic movements with locked hands.

Everything here is individual, you need to focus on the guy's reaction. For the best glide and effect, it is important to use a stimulating lubricant.

For a quick and strong ending, it is worth adding anus or prostate caress if the partner is okay with this kind of stimulation. Do not forget about the testicles, perineum, inner side of the thigh, nipples and other erogenous zones (each can have their own).

RPG

Women who are faced with the problem of how to bring a man to orgasm with classic sex are advised to add variety to their intimate life. Most guys have secret fantasies about kinky nurses, secretaries, teachers. It's time to make those dreams come true.

An erotic costume and an unusual scenario of sexual intercourse will give a lot of pleasant sensations even before coitus, and after penetration into the vagina it will take only a few minutes for a stormy climax. Role-playing games are a great option for married couples when the husband's attraction has decreased against the background of monotony in intimacy.

Oral sex

Most men admit that blowjobs are their favorite form of satisfaction.

They like not only the feeling of the lips on the penis, but also the observation of the partner, who at the time of the action seems to them the most sexy and attractive. The combination of physiological and psychological components helps to achieve relaxation in a short time, especially if the girl is good at technique.

Oral sex uses lips and tongue, face, and the maximum stimulation should fall on the head - from this the guy simply loses his composure. During the process, you need to stroke the base of the penis, testicles, the area around the anus. As a result, a man gets a stormy and powerful "ending", which he will remember for a long time.

Preventing Orgasm Problems

In order not to face anorgasmia in the future, a man needs to adhere to the following medical advice:

• have regular sex life;
• avoid excessive masturbation;
• to add variety to intimacy (toys, new positions, role-playing games, unusual places);
• talk openly with your partner about your desires and not be afraid to try new sexual techniques;
• do not overwork at work, avoid stress;
• lead a healthy lifestyle without cigarettes and alcohol (if possible);
• exercise regularly to keep the body in good shape.

Do not forget about the annual visits to the urologist. Preventive medical examinations are needed to monitor men's health and prevent serious diseases of the genitourinary tract.